Our God is a God of Second Chances!

Today, with HH coming home late from work, and having fallen asleep on our recliner, I quickly realized dinner was no where in sight. I had about fifteen minutes to create something edible, which I knew was literally impossible. I made a quick call to our favorite 'So Fast, You'll Freak' Jimmy Johns, and I ordered a sampling of all the good stuff. It's one of the kids favorites, and I couldn't be happier when they request J.J.'s rather than McD's.

With dinner being served, and kids munchin' on their favorites, my little Serious, decided to show her colors in the only way she knows how.....Seriously.

Serious: Mom, this is the best dinner!
Mom: I am glad you like it.
Serious: You're the best, Mom.
Mom: Why, because we got fun dinner tonight?
Serious: No, because sometimes I want to do things the way I want....... And you want me to do things the way you want. ....... And I think my way is best. And you think your way is best.
Mom Confused: ...ok....?
Serious: And I really do think that sometimes your way is the right way, ......and not my way....... But, oh, it's hard to say. I JUST CAN'T SAY IT!
Mom: You like the way I take care of you?
Serious: Yes, I am sure you know the best way, I guess...I wanted to say that.
Mom: Even though you got in trouble today? You still think it?
Serious: Yeah..., even though I was in trouble...
Mom hugging Serious: Thanks honey, I am glad you told me!

Mr. Carefree wants to join in now.....
Mr. Carefree: Mom, I know why you're the best.
Mom: This fun dinner?
Carefree, trying to come up with something: No, because....because.....

Mom: I got your favorite, BLT?

Carefree: No, Mom, you always let us try again after we get into trouble.

Mom: Oh, of course you can always try again. We've got to give you a chance to make better choices, right?

Carefree: Yeah,...and..... well,...... the BLT IS delicious!

Boy, kids pay close attention don't they? I sat amazed. Serious had a light bulb above her head at dinner, and at six years old, that's saying quite a lot. She actually verbalized an understanding that sometimes her way isn't the right one. ...that she sometimes makes mistakes, which, with her personality is a huge realization. And Mr. Carefree, seeing the whole drama unfold today with Serious in trouble, then at dinner, he chimed in, and understood a profound teaching that we try and implement daily.....that ability to try again. That chance to do better, make better choices, to apologize, forgive and move on with hopes of a brighter day.

Children are so good at forgive and forget. It's more difficult for adults, as we protect ourselves all too often, put up defensive walls, and guard the heart like a fortress.

I used to be that person. I used to cut off the people who wronged me. If you wronged me, I don't need you. And my children.....my beloved little ones have taught me so much......and with a deepening Faith, God has shown mercy countless times for me.

What kind of mother would I be, if I cut them off when they wronged me? As many times as I have made my own mistakes, these children, have not only forgiven, they trust again. They trust ME again, even when common sense would tell them otherwise.

Since I have been forgiven, so should I forgive. It's not easy....for sure, it's not easy. But it's a part of our Faith, truly, how many times did Christ give a second chance to those around Him.....every time, didn't He? The woman at the well, Peter who denied Christ three times, the guard in the garden, the woman caught in adultery, and all the rest. Even Judas, had he resisted despair, would too have been forgiven.

To quote a favorite Veggie Tale, 'Jonah, the Movie', "Our God is a God of second chances!"

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